for those of you that had more than one…are your children competitive?

the reason i ask if your children are competitive, is because that was something i thought about when thinking about having more kids. my son stunts electric bikes…he is in paid stunt shows, he is sponsored by an electric bike company, has been given free bikes from companies, has been given free clothes from small businesses for pics/videos of him wearing the clothes while riding. we spend a lot of our free time riding. do you think having another one would cause that competition factor? i feel like it’s already caused competition between me and my siblings (on their end not mine), because my dad is super involved with my son and riding and his shows as well, that i think it’s caused jealousy with my siblings, and the last thing i want is more competition with my son and a sibling.

recently i’ve been leaning more towards being one and done. i didn’t think i was, but i think i only want another one so i can be pregnant (i LOVED being pregnant) and go through the newborn stages again. i think i’m mourning my son not being so little anymore and want that again, but don’t necessarily want another kid. does that make sense? my son will be 3 at the end of the month.