Advice be nice

So i have been crying for the past hour not sure what to do or am i overthinking. I have been with my boyfriend for almost year now we have been through some tough times but no matter what we stuck together he would even drive 2 hours to come see me . He told me he wanted to continue our relationship but he had decided to move closer to his kids which means he would be even further so if i continued to live where i was we wouldnt see eachother as often so i thought about it and uprooted my whole life and got a home in the town over. I was supposed to have my job transfer but it didnt i have been applying anywhere and everywhere but cant get a job i have showed him the emails have told him when i go for interviews but to no luck i haven't been hired . He seemed like he was being understanding and patient but today i asked for money to pay my phone and light bill and he said this is why i havent moved all my stuff in i dont want you depending on me. :(. What is he saying? He literally asked me to move with him. Im not working but i cook and clean he always comes home to a clean house and dinner served . What am i doing wrong? Did i misunderstand? Hes working now but im so scared he is mad and wont be back or if he does its just to grab his things.