I feel so unimportant

No one in my life seems to have the time to make any kinda effort for me when I do everything for everyone. I go all out with gifts thoughtful gifts but I seem to get a present in the morning a Nivea or Dove set that just goes in the bathroom for everyone to use. I make sure everyone has what they want or need and I never buy myself anything. I got 3 kids (one is 15) and a boyfriend and as long as they are sorted that’s all that matters. No one has time to make sure I’m okay and do the little things for me like I do for them. It’s slowly really starting to hurt me. I don’t wanna say anything cause I don’t want people forced to do things or make them feel bad for not doing anything. I think I just need to man up and get over it but it’s hard. I’m hustling havin a down day after being let down again.