I have a 3 year old with my previous relationship. We broke up and he either passes me money but he doesn’t really make the effort to see the daughter like pick her up and spend time with her always makes excuses. I used to let him see her 3 times a week for 30 minutes outside my house since he failed her many times. I stopped doing that because now I started to work and I’m busy and either way when I come home that’s cleaning or cooking time and if he really wants to see her he can ask for a Saturday or Sunday. I only respond to his messages if it’s about him asking about my daughter but don’t have the interest in any other thing he tells me. I’m in a current relationship and we both live together. Ever since my daughter dad send messages then and there that he missed both of us, misses me, wants to try again and stuff like that. I never delete anything I just ignored it because many times I have told him that I don’t care and he needs to stop saying stuff like that because I have a partner and respect him. Well my current boyfriend always brings it up and tell me I don’t put a stop into him telling me that and that I like when he tells me that. I tell him no that I tried many times telling him to only ask or say things of our daughter, but that now I prefer to not respond or say anything when he tells me stuff like that because it’s like me keep on going…