Boyfriend comes to my house 1/2 a year

Been together 5 years. He rarely comes to my house, I drive to his every time I see him. He comes on holidays. He doesn’t seem

Interested in getting to know my family. When my dad called the other day when I was at his house, I said here speak to my dad and he whispered noooo and groaned. After I asked him why and he said it’s because when he talks to my dad my dad talks and talks and can talk for ages, which is true. But still, they don’t talk that often. Maybe once a month over the phone. NO we do not live far from each other, a 25 minute drive. He never offers to pick me up, and when i drive to him he has never offered me gas. He does pay for our food though, most times. Idk sometimes I feel he just doesn’t care about me, because if you truly did you would want to get to know my family as well. My parents have always been nice to him, and they’re all extroverted so it wouldn’t be hard to talk with each other.

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Think about what would happen if you removed YOUR effort. Would you still have a relationship? Are you ok with being in a relationship that you're solely keeping alive?

Ja

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This isn’t a serious relationship

My

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How old are both of you? Do you have children together? It sounds like he doesn’t want to be serious with you. Have you talked to him about it? I totally get wanting to vent on here but we aren’t the boyfriend. These are things that should be mentioned to him. When does he plan on becoming serious? Do you guys ever plan on living together? If this isn’t something you want then tell him you want more than what he’s currently offering and if he can’t do that then it’s over. Very simple.

As

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Stop making all the effort and see what happens. Sounds like this is a dead end relationship