Insensitive ?
I’ve been talking to this guy for awhile now and I’ve been holding back because I get the sense he’s not completely over his ex just based off things he would say over time. Today he says “What do you tell somebody on their anniversary of their loved one’s death” i automatically knew who he was talking about because he would’ve stated the person like he usually does. I ask and he says his ex, she lost her child’s father a year ago. For context since we’ve been talking he’s been saying how he blocked her, she always calls from unknown numbers.. they end up arguing and it ruins his day. He has literally gotten on the phone with me and I’ve had to talk him out of that “mood” but im telling him if you genuinely didn’t want somebody to contact you, you would make sure that doesn’t happen. Like why are you letting somebody get you upset who you claim you’re over? I decided to just end the conversation because I knew I wasn’t going to approach it right but am I being insensitive or overacting because I want to remove myself from the situation now? I just don’t want to fully fall for somebody who’s not completely over their ex. I wanna have a conversation and just express how I feel to him before cutting it off or should I just leave it alone?
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