My relationship has been super rocky for the last year including multiple miscarriages and lots of fighting… my husband has literally said the worst things he could possibly say to me at times like I’m the worst thing that ever happened to him. Finally this last fight was because I was trying to help him fix his credit and I asked him before we got married and after to remove himself from his ex’s credit card and he still hasn’t done it after a year of marriage. Because I asked him to do it himself rather than texting his ex it turned into a big fight. So then he tells me to “get out or he’s going to make my life miserable.”

Two days later he decides he wants to split. Very shortly after I realize I’m pregnant. We’ve been trying for a year including the last four months of medicated cycles and of course now he says to “flush it.” I can’t bring myself to get an abortion but I’m also concerned about being a single mom and what life looks like moving forward. Do any of you regret having carried through a pregnancy with an ex or do you have any advice for me? He is super toxic to me and I have been super reactive to the things he’s put me through. Would appreciate any advice in general. Thank you.