I (F 29) met a guy ( M 31) on hinge and he asked me out to go get drinks so I met him last Friday night and it went well. He was asking me lots of questions about myself and seemed interested and then he ended up driving me home and before I got out of the car we ended up kissing which led to a heated make out session that lasted like 45 mins. When I got out of the car, we hugged and he kissed me and then kissed my forehead which was cute but also unexpected. Then the next day he invited me over to his place and he ordered us a pizza and some wine and we watched a movie for a bit and of course it led to us having sex. The sex was amazing and lasted 45 mins and then we put on a show and went another round so clearly he seemed to be enjoying it. I slept over that night and in the morning when I woke up, he was spooning me with his arm around my waist. I had to leave for work so he walked me to my car and grabbed my hand to hold it and then we said bye.

He texted me tonight asking what I was up to around 9 pm and then said that he was going to go to the gym and would be back around 11 and basically just said “ if you’d like to come over and watch a movie I’ll be home at 11. I know it’s late though and I work tmrw”. I told him that I couldn’t tonight and then suggested we could do something tomorrow after he gets off work and then he just replied “ no worries, I might help my friend with his film project but I should be free around 10!”

I don’t know if this guy only wants sex from me but I’m worried that since I already slept with him on the second date, it might have already set the tone for a friends with benefits type of relationship and I’m not sure if I want that. I’d rather him take me out on dates and know his intentions but I don’t know how to go about it. I’m really attracted to him but the last time I was at his house I noticed he wasn’t really as talkative or making as much of an effort to get to know me as he did on the first date. Should I still go over to this place tomorrow and then just ask him in person what he’s looking for?

Helpppp idk what to do lol

UPDATE -

I suggested going to the beach on the 4th and he replied “ yeah I’d definitely be down, maybe we can go to Malibu “ and then I texted him to follow up the next day and he replied “ Hey okay I’m still at work but I’ll let you know when I’m off “ around 2 pm and then didn’t hear from him til 5 and he goes “ So many issues today at work I don’t think I’ll be able to hang out today I’m so sorry”.

And I just replied with “ Aw no worries ! Thanks for letting me know.” And he still hasn’t opened my text since last night and his read receipts are on so I’d know if he looked at it. Does it seem like he lost interest ?