Hey all, I don’t know if I’m the Asshole.

So I’m almost 30 weeks pregnant and I’m having a hard time. My partner knows this. He’s not really ever supportive doesn’t help me with anything he might do the dishes once a week if I’m lucky because he says he’s tired from work.

On the weekends he mainly naps through the days.

Just a little back story.

So he’s been snoring really really bad recently and he keeps me awake all night I’ve tried falling asleep before him but he wakes me up snoring or elbowing me, he walked his bum into my belly a few nights ago and it was really hard and I was mad I know he was sleeping but I had a bad belly all night.

Anyways so I’m on 3 nights no sleep I’ve asked him to go into the spare room or our huge sofa that’s more comfortable than our bed but he refuses. I want to sleep in my own bedroom I have the bed and pillows as I want them for comfort.

Then this morning I’ve woken him up at 8am because I can’t stand the snoring anymore I was crying and I have extreme heartburn this morning and ran out of gaviscon. So I said please can u make me decaf coffee and toast please please. He didn’t want to but eventually got up after 15 minutes of pleading that I wasn’t feeling well.

45 minutes later I realise I’m not going to get it so I went and made it myself he was on the toilet on his phone does this a lot but magically is always done when I come downstairs or ask if he’s ok. Then he asked why I was mad and if I can make it myself then don’t ask him. How would u react? I don’t want to look at him right now. Just no care there.