I am 21w6d and up until ten minutes ago hadn’t felt baby boy since last night at 9pm. Normally he’s very active at night. When I’m winding down and snuggled in bed is when he’s like “oh hey mah, let’s hang out” but last night he wasn’t. I got home around 10 and he was completely quiet. I’ve been having low bp readings and my blood sugar has been wonky as well. When I told the doc about the low bp and sugars she said if I felt like something was off just to go into ob triage and get checked, couldn’t hurt.

What does hurt are the er bills. I also have 4 other kids that would need to be looked after so I can go in. I don’t want to get there and have everything checked out and they said me home saying I’m fine then have to deal with the bill, all for nothing.

Am I being ridiculous? Should just go? I should also mention we found out he has a single umbilical artery but everything else is measuring fine