Hello, I been on birth control for a while now and I have very low libido when it comes to having sex with my husband. We just got married three weeks ago and been together for 9 years. I feel bad because my husband is always initiating sex with me and I have no sex drive prior. Once I’m in the mood I absolutely love having sex with my husband. We have amazing sex. He’s starting to get tired of asking and always initiating sex with me and I feel really bad because I don’t want him to keep asking and initiating it. I’m thinking to get off birth control pill completely to gain back my libido. I want to initiate sex with my husband because I love sex.

Any tips to gaining back libido while cutting off taking the pill? What can I do?