I’m so confused right now. I met a guy on hinge because he sent me a rose and asked to take me out for drinks so I met up with him about two weeks ago and it went really well. We ended up making out in his car for an hour and then when I got out of the car he kissed my forehead and was being really sweet. Then he asked me to come over the next night and we ended up having sex which was great and lasted 45 mins and he went two rounds and came twice so clearly he was attracted to me. Then he was being really cuddly the next morning and spooning me and then when he walked me to my car he was holding my hand and suggesting I come over the following week. He texted me a couple nights ago asking how my day went and then asked if I had plans and I told him I didn’t. He then told me I was welcome to come to his place and since my car is having issues he offered to come pick me up and drove 25 mins to get me.

When I got in the car he asked me if I was hungry was since it was already 10 pm there weren’t a lot of places open so he offered to cook me this pasta he kept raving about. We got to his house and he ended up actually cooking for me which was super sweet and made me feel special. Before we went to go watch a movie in his room I had to pee and noticed I started my period. When I came back into his room I let him know that I had just started it and he didn’t seem to have any problem with it at all and said he was fine still having sex. We started making out and then before he was about to slide in I was like “ oh wait, am I gonna make a mess on your bed?” And he should just said “ no” and kept kissing me and then pushed inside me. Clearly he was too horny to want to stop and I warned him and was thinking we should have put a towel down. This time he came within 15 mins which was weird because the first time we had sex I mentioned how long he had lasted and he told me when he’s really enjoying the sex he can control himself from finishing. After he came, we got up to shower and then he got out first.

When I came into the hallway I saw he had his comforter on the floor and was scrubbing it with soap and water. Then I noticed there was a huge blood splatter that had stained it and I was so embarrassed. He didn’t make it a big deal and told me it would provably come out in the washing machine. He didn’t seem annoyed at all but maybe he was just trying to be polite. Then we continued watching a movie after he threw it in the dryer, and he was cuddling me like normal. When we woke up in the morning he was spooning me and I mentioned I was really cold and since his blanket was in the wash he got up and grabbed some hoodies to put over my body. He then told me he had to go shower because he had a job interview in the next hour which he had told me about the night before. As he was in the shower, I noticed female sunglasses next to his nightstand ( right next to the side I slept on) and I was kind of shocked and just froze only because I had also noticed long strands of hair in his shower the night I showered after we had sex and also a mini travel size concealer bottle on his bathroom counter.

These items weren’t there the week before. So it was very clear that he had just recently had a girl over after I had been there the first time. I ended up taking a photo of the sunglasses because I wanted my friend’s opinion on if she felt they looked like women’s sunglasses even though I’m almost certain they were but I panicked and just snapped a pic which I felt weird about later. I also noticed that when he got out of the shower he was acting weird and super quiet just on his phone and not really talking to me at all. When I told him my Uber arrived he walked me out and when we were walking he was going ahead of me and it felt like he was kind of rushing me out. He also could have been nervous about being late to his interview but I jokingly was like “ you walk so fast “ and he just replied “ I have really long legs”. And then it was kind of awkward waiting for my Uber because he wasn’t really saying anything. While we were waiting, I noticed he had a pink makeup stain on his sweater ( a sweater he was not wearing the night before, so it couldn’t have been mine, he threw on a random one to walk me out) and when I noticed my automatic nervous response was “ oh is that my makeup that got on your sweater ? And he just nodded casually and was like “ yeah” and then when my Uber arrived , I just thanked him for the pasta he had made me and he was like “ yeah thanks for coming over. Text me when you’re home “ . I didn’t end up texting him but then today I noticed that he unfollowed me ! I’m so genuinely confused. I don’t know if I did something wrong, but the fact that he did that is making me go crazy.

I also realized I left my bracelet on his shelf and now I don’t know how I’m going to get it back. Do I confront him about him unfollowing me ? Should I text him about my bracelet? What do I do ? lol