I’m looking for genuine advice and suggestions as my marriage is important to me and I just want to know what’s wrong with me lol.

So I’ve been married to my husband for 3 years. I never used to have any issues getting turned on but lately my sex drive has been at an all time low. and I mean LOW.

And i feel guilty because there’s times when I just don’t want to and i feel like it’s making him feel unwanted.

I’ve no idea why this is happening, I’ve overthought this to the point where I have anxiety when I think we might have sex. So then during foreplay, I can’t relax and I’m never really fully turned on.

What can I do to calm down my mind? I think he’s beautiful and attractive, so I don’t know why I can’t get turned on.