My friend is dating/ On and off with this guy for the last 7 months, she’s currently 6 months pregnant with his baby. I don’t like him, at all.

He has access to all of her socials, reads her messages, accuses her of cheating/entertaining other men (including my husband whom he has met). He has deleted her conversations before she can get to them or spazzes on her for OUR conversations.

He also complains that she eats and sleeps too much. She’s 6 MONTHS PREGNANT, it’s exhausting work. I asked him if he’d ever carried a baby for nine months.

I sent her a post reminiscing on something we did as TEENAGERS & he got mad. For context if needed , it was about our “hoe days”. He grilled her out, this was sent before i knew about him having her socials.

She’s going so far as to ask me to text her phone instead of replying on social media. Oh let’s not forget he has abandoned my friend to go live in another state, so her village is taking care of her.

Never did i asked for the details in regards to their relationship. She tells me, no one else will listen. We all have told her this relationship is not healthy. For her, her current children, or the baby to come.

When she asked me to be supportive, i told her no. He is manipulative & always makes her seem like a bad person for having conversations with anyone other than him 🤮. She just wants to be loved and I know that, we all just wish she wouldn’t settle for scum.

Am I the AH for not supporting their relationship?