So long story, should I send an invite to someone who I know probably won’t come to my diaper party? Or text her and see if she does in fact want to go? Little background, we’ve been best friends for over 15 years, she had a miscarriage bout 4 years ago. When I was pregnant with my son she distanced herself from me. When I lost my son late term she came back around. Now I’m expecting again and again she’s distanced herself which I completely understand. Our relationship is a little different now. She doesn’t even consider me a best friend anymore, which is ok since we are allowed to grow and change. I’m not hurt like I was the first time. I know she says she’s happy for us, but I know she’s hurt and sad for herself and’s I am too. They’ve been trying and I’ve been praying they get their baby. Anyways I sent an invite the first time and I knew she wouldn’t go and I know it probably hurt her, which I didn’t wanna do.

With this baby I’m unsure what to do. If I should just send her one or if I should text her before and ask if she wants to come. Or if I should just not send one to her at all. Either way I don’t want to hurt her feelings or at least ease the blow, and it hurts that she’s hurting. I had to ask her if it was ok if I posted about my baby girl and she said I shouldn’t worry about others feelings but for me it’s so hard. It’s even harder since this pregnancy I’m so emotional! Advice, tips, help?! 😩