my husband and I had one of our biggest arguments the other day. we had so much going on prior and both stressed to the max, especially my husband we’ve made up, the fight itself wasn’t crazy but we had some big feelings.

well he went to stay at his friends house the night of the fight. okay, whatever i get needing to get away for a bit, i wasn’t super thrilled about it of course but i was just tired of arguing and he had brought up how ive never had to struggle and i needed to wake up and struggle a little bit, this was because ive been a SAHM for the past two years but i worked for all my own things prior. so when he leaves he turned his location off🧐 it’s been 2 days and he still hasn’t turned it back on, but since he’s turned it off he’s left right around bedtime for our kids (8:30ish) each night! first was because he needed to bring his mom an air mattress and blankets and then ton if he was to bring her a basket of clothes she left, even though he brought her some of his own clothes last night when he brought the mattress. I hope and don’t think he’s cheating but ya never know i guess. it’s just very suspicious. I did bring up the fact his location is still off and he said “i turned it off to make you mad” but still nothing.

the night we argued i was asking him if he was done with me since he left and he was like “why? do you have plans to invite a dude over already?” as im sitting at home with our TWO KIDS! like wtf would that be his first response?