What should be a man’s job if he works but I’m a stay at home mom taking care of 5 year old and making food constantly cleaning taking care of our animals doing laundry literally doing everything at home he works 7pm - 7am he likes to play his video games eat his dinner I save for him when he gets home he’ll go to bed after and doesn’t really do much to help me out . I constantly have to tell him to take trash out for me bc I’m pregnant and I can use help around the house but he says it’s my job all I do is sleep all day. But I don’t even get much sleep he said “ well you can get sleep I can’t bc I work you don’t do anything bc you don’t work. What do you guys think? I let him sleep I cook breakfast for our kid and wake him up to eat I do dishes after and do what I’m supposed to do as a gf and mom but Is it wrong that I feel like I should need help around the house ? I am constantly cleaning cleaning bathroom making sure our daughter is nice clean and taken care of. Am I wrong for feeling this way I don’t know what to tell him bc he seems to think bc he works he doesn’t need to help out and deserves to drink on all his days off. He makes me feel bad and says “ you are able to do all this stuff bc I work for our family” when I watched our kid so he can go to college. I feel like I helped him build his career I let him use my car to get to school I watched our baby I made sure he was fed. I’m not working at the moment but I do want to start working after the baby turns 1 years old. He only gets 1 sometimes 2 days off work but he likes picking up shifts to get more money.