Currently in an ldr and if you’ve seen my previous post my feelings have changed and ive come to accept that it’s better to end things. Over the past few months his behavior and attitude have become completely different. He lives in a constant state of victim mentality and blaming others for his own moves. The arguments are more frequent and he’s very manipulative in his responses to me most of the time. My last relationship was like this..I can’t and don’t want to go through it again. I’m not in a great mental space right now anyway. My career is stressful, I’m going through some personal things and just started back to get my bsn a couple of weeks ago. He’s draining what life and energy I have left and I just can’t..

I don’t want to be mean about it or be intentionally hurtful I just want to end it. I’ve never really broken up with someone before so this is new to me. What is the best way to go about it? Is it worth going through the details and explanations?