I have a high libido and its been an insecurity for me. None of my partnerswill be ableto keep up or be willing to try many kinks. My husband is no different and its starting toturn me off. He has always known aboutmy kinks and turn ons. It's just become the worst experience trying to do new things or, if we do and he even likes it, it's such an ordeal to try again. I want to kill my libido and would like any suggestions i can get. It'snot fun anymore and lately I don't even want to ask if he'sin the mood. I'll just ignore it and go to bed. I don't have many in my life to talk about this to. Just sad