I dont know

Sa

Sarah-Leigh

I guess i just have to accept that babies arent an option for me.. i guess that is just something that no mattet how badly i want one it will never happen for me not because of me but because he dont want anymore kids he stands on no.. i dont know whether to break down and cry or laugh or what to say or think anymore

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Al

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Your going to resent him in the long run. I’ve seen your comments and it seems as though you may care about him more than you do you self.

A

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this bond does not sound healthy at all. If you want kids, it will never work out with someone that doesn’t.

A

A • Jul 23
Well that’s kind of how it happens. Your relationship grows, you get older, you start realizing what you want out of life. Just because it is a recent development doesn’t change the fact you want a baby.

Sa

Sarah-Leigh • Jul 23
Like i said its only a recent thing of me all of sudden wanting kids i never did

Ca

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What? You don’t have to accept that. You’re not obligated to stay in a relationship where you want different things.

Ki

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If it’s a deal breaker then leave. You will grow to resent him.

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Your relationship will never work

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🌸🌼🌺 • Jul 23
It doesn’t matter. If you truly want a child that won’t change. You’ll carry resentment forever

Sa

Sarah-Leigh • Jul 23
You cant say that because you dont know what we have already gone through sure this is just a phase

Co

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I’m sorry, but what do you for us to say if you will never leave him. Everyone is giving their thoughts and opinions. Regardless how a person treats you, you are likely to resent him. Hopefully it works out for you!

Sa

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I dont know if its cause he loves me right and treats me like a queen and isnt scared to show the world how much he loves me or that i am his.. I never thought in a million years i would have found someone like him..

Sa

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Its only recently that i have had this thought it was never in my plans to have a baby.. but lately all i see around me is babies and i just want my own one

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If kids are a deal breaker for you. it’s ok to leave the relationship and pursue someone with the same goals.

Sa

Sarah-Leigh • Jul 23
Babies werent in my thought its just all of a sudden i had to no interest in it its just recently i have had this thing of wanting a baby

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♈️ • Jul 23
Eventually resentment will creep in and the relationship will likely fail. Unless you are also 100% on board with not having kids. That’s just the unfortunate reality in most situations where family planning doesn’t align.

Sa

Sarah-Leigh • Jul 23
I could never do it to him.. i have never been loved the way he loves me nor have i ever been treated the way he treats me..

Sa

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You must remember one thing when it comes to him there isnt a single thing that would making me leave.. because i want a baby isnt a reason to leave him