Random question,

I am a 41 yr old mother of one. Lately I’ve been having these terrible headaches that come with dizziness, blurred vision and some nausea and vomiting for almost a year. Lately it has gotten worse. I’ve seen doctor after doctor that have checked me for brain aneurisms, tumors brain clots whatever. Nothing. The last time I was admitted my vision and dizziness got really bad. My blood pressure was at stroke levels and my head was constantly hurting. I was admitted for what SEEMED like a stroke. But after all the test and blood work they said it was NOT a stroke. And basically was comfortable with saying it was migraines. About 1 month before this I began…mm..spotting very pink mucus/blood. It started 11 days before my actual period. On the 11th day, I came on my actual period bled very heavy for 3 days and woke up on the 4th day and just like that it was over. I cramped really bad which is not normal for my menstrual.

Now I’m a 7 day bleeder. I have fibroids. It’s normal for my periods to be heavy and long. But no cramps. Prior to this period, I was late by like 2-3 days and the period was very short. Yes, I thought I was pregnant, I thought I was miscarrying all the above. But after blood work confirmed it, I realize none of that had happened. I haven’t been able to see an OBGYN yet because the appointment is booked out so far. But here we are again today I began the pink spotting 3 days ago, 5 days before my actual period is coming on. Should I be worried? Or am I in early or peri- menopause. Any advice would be helpful. I grew up without my mom so, I’ve never actually had this conversation EVER to even know the signs. And google just makes me paranoid that I’m dying. lol

PLEASE HELP! And thank you for reading 😊