My mom is my adoptive mom. I was taken away from my biological parents as a toddler because they neglected me until I was malnourished and almost died. I was put into the system and then adopted when I was 11 by my mom and dad. They are extremely religious. Like my dad was a pastor. So I suffered some religious trauma. When I turned 16 on my birthday my dad raped me than said if I ever said anything nobody would believe me and he would throw me back into foster care. So I suffered being raped until I was 18. I told my mom what happened. She confronted my dad. He admitted to it ... Then I was kicked out by my mom. He admits he's disgusting and she kicked ME out. One of my friends took me in. His dads allowed me to live there and his dads became my dads. They treated me the way I deserved to be treated. I call them dad and papa now. My dad passed away 6 years ago and o didn't even go to the funeral. I stayed with my dad's and my friend who I consider a brother now. My son is 5 and my dad's have been amazing granddad's to him. My mom has only met my son once. The YMCA is having grandparents day and my mom asked about it. I said my sins granddads are already taking him. She got upset. She said they aren't his real grandparents. I said they are if I say they are. She said what if people don't want their kids exposed to gays. I said then they can keep their kids inside forever. I don't care. She is saying she didn't sexually abuse me so why am I punishing her. I am at the point where I want to completely cut her off