Ive never posted anything like this before... But i think i just need validation and advice..

Im make it as short as i can.

I am a single mother. My child is 2.5 years old and has no relationship with her real father. My baby daddy left me when i was pregnant.

I decided when she was roughly around 1 years old to start actually dating someone i talked to for about 6 months or so. Fast forward. We will have been together for a year at the end of next month (August). For the most part everything was absolutely fine up until recently. When he started working 3rd shifts (10pm to 6am). It was an opprotunity that was closer to home and more money. Neither of us really wanted him to work 3rds but he has goals hes focusing on and i am supporting them as a partner.

Hes ALWAYS been a great father figure to my child. Again Until recently... I know hes not cheating so please dont throw that out there. Ive already dug through his phone. But lately (for about 2 months now), our relationship has gone down hill. Hes been telling me that i spoil my daughter too much, she gets away with too much, and that shes extremely naughty For her age. Again. Shes 2 and a half. He gets livid when i let her watch a show called Gabbys Dollhouse because he despises it and thinks its teaching her nothing but bad behavior... He now tells me he NO LONGER wants a child Of his own because of her and her "not normal naughty behavior" and how he cant "handle another spoiled child like her"...

This isnt the only issue i have with him currently because there are other issues between him and i That also hurt me badly, but i wont get into that because i want to do whats right for me and my daughter at the end of the day.

Ive already thought about leaving him which will put me in a financially tight spot but i know at this point that shouldnt matter.

I guess im just looking for other peoples expierences and thoughts to validate what i should do...

Thank you for reading. I appreciate it <3