I’ve been having sex with this guy for like 3 years. I admit there was ONE time 6 months where I didn’t shower before sex and it was kinda bad. But lately he sometimes will randomly check that I shower. Only thought it was weird because he didn’t do it until long after. When he started to do it I said “I only didn’t one time and that was a while ago”, he claims there’s been other times and he “talked about it”. But I’m really self conscious already so I would definitely remember if the guy I’m intimate with told me more than once that I smelled/looked/tasted bad. Then tonight I was getting ready to have sex. He likes dresses so I showered and put on one. I also put some perfume on my inner thighs because him being weird has made me self conscious that maybe I smell bad. I still live at home and my parents can be iffy so I put on shorts so it wasn’t obvious I was just going to have sex lol. He started fingering me and ate me out a little. Then went to start fucking me but then he said I supposedly had shit on my ass and that I tasted bad so he was done. I awkwardly left and tried to check myself out. The “shit” was just two tiny fuzzy things from my shorts. I also wiped and tried to smell myself and only smelt the soap. When I texted him and told him, he basically said he didn’t believe me and didn’t believe I showered and that I was lying and it was “making him mad”. I offered to switch soaps and he said “well I don’t get why what you’ve been using before isn’t working now all of a sudden? Something is up”. Then throws out how the last time he had this issue with a girl, they were sleeping with other guys (he made me agree that I wouldn’t). But we also share location and we talk all day so idk why he’s mentioning that as a possibility ? Like I get that I had the one time. But that was ONE time SIX MONTHS AGO out of ALL the times we’ve had sex. So I feel like he’s being extreme? Or maybe I just don’t get it? Idk.