Long story short - I was laid off at 27 weeks.

Prior to that, we planned on buying everything ourselves and now I’m panicking a little bit feeling like I need the help.

I feel guilty because this is our fourth - BUT it’s our first boy and this was unplanned. I haven’t had a newborn in four years, and donated everything to moms in need because we were done. This little guy just surprised us despite our efforts to prevent it.

Should I have a shower? And if I do, when do I have one? I haven’t had one since my 2nd so I don’t remember how this all goes. Historically I’ve had all of my babies at 38 weeks.