I love my mom, because she’s my mom. But she wasn’t the best mother when my sister and I were younger.

Now that we are adults, and she is doing better in life, she tries to be our friends. She has never said sorry for anything she has done in the past. And when my sister and I try to talk to her about the past, she denies everything or changes the subject.

She also tries to just buy us things to make us happy. Or take us on expensive trips.

She doesn’t work anymore because her husband makes enough money for her not to. So she stays at home all day and does nothing and just blows our phone up while we are at work.

I don’t want her out of my life, I just need space.

Am I being an asshole for feeling this way???