My time and efforts not being respected

So my husband and I had a kinda off day yesterday and this morning but I feel like he was coming around this afternoon.

He said he wanted to bbq and asked for me to go to the store. He was going to run an errand he said it should be like an hour. Cool, gives me time to head to the store and all that.

It’s now been almost 3hrs, I text for an update.

He FaceTimes me saying he is at his moms and plans changed. Mind you, he didn’t let me know up until this phone call.

He said he would still cook but like nvm now? You had me waiting…. He said for me to not get upset cause I’d just push HIM away. Lol like what ?