My mom told me that I am too fat for my best friend/ex boyfriend to date me. She said even if I get in shape again he won’t want me. I’m a short brunette and he wants a tall blonde Instagram model. He takes me on dates, pays for my hair and nails and talks to me all the time. We were sleeping together and he didn’t want to do that anymore. He used to flirt with me all the time. It’s ok was just painful to hear and so hard to hear that something so objective as looks can prevent a guy from loving you/wanting you. But if he doesn’t want to sleep with you as a guy I can’t blame him I guess. Was just painful to understand.