My boyfriend (21) and I (19) have been together for 2 years now and everything recently has been pissing me off, between his scheduling, what he wants to do, what he says, etc. I’ve also think is because I have been working a full time job for a big company for the past couple months and I’m really enjoying it. Where as he thinks no one should work for the man and I should just work for myself like he wants to. He just doesn’t seem to like me working even though he says he is so proud of me and will support me no matter what. I just feel like we’re in two different places and I’m having a hard time with it. I don’t want him to hold me back with my career and my life which I feel like is what he is doing. But he is also super sweet and treats me very good, so it has just been a hard debate of what I should do. I’m kinda lost because I know it would break his heart and he thinks he can’t live without me yet I know I would be okay without him. What do you think I should do?

Ps. I also have been almost completely self sufficient since I was 16 yet his parent still give him money whenever he needs it. I just feel if I don’t end it that nothing will change and I will just be miserable. I’m not sure though. It’s a scary and life changing decision b