Hi! So any advice I appreciate, I'm 21, dating my first boyfriend ever. We've been dating for 3 months and recently we've been talking about having sex. He knows I'm a virgin so he said he'll go at my pace and let him know when I'm ready. He currently doesn't have health insurance but his job will give him insurance in January. I told him that maybe by the time he get his insurance, he can go to the Dr. and make sure he's clean, that I think I'll be ready. I want to explore with him but would it be to early? Also I know he'll use a condom but what are some good birth control options for me? I know there is some that make you gain weight and I would like to avoid that if possible. So I guess what would be the best option? I rambled so much but if you read it all I appreciate any advice, Thank you!!