So if a person is not in a relationship with someone but they have been hooking up for some time and the other person has a partner. When the partner comes over that person always says I'll hit you up when they leave.wouldnt you think they are unhappy because if you wasnt why are you cheating? That person was married now divorced and dating the side piece. But you still looking for someone else on the side now? Also I really like this person we do have history from a long time ago .