I've been with my husband for 4 years. He's a great guy and I love him. He has also struggled with depression and anxiety and I knew that when we started dating. He sees a therapist and psychologist. He's been dealing with worse depression because he saw someone he used to go to college with and it sent him into a deep depression. He's been laying around most days. We talked about it about two hours ago and he told me he's bisexual. I grew up in a household that wasn't really gay is wrong type thing. I mean my dad and brothers constantly talked about how hot lesbians are 🙄. But both my parents had this idea that bisexual people aren't real. They're either really just gay people not wanting to go full in or straight people who want to be quirky. I'm not saying that's my belief. Just the only idea that was told to me about bisexual people. His family didn't accept that and he was sent to a conversion camp at one point. He dated a guy in college which surprised me because he went to a Catholic college. But said him and that guy dated in private and he completely turned on him one day. Tricked him by saying he wanted to meet up in the shower because they would have sex in the shower often but instead he was met with him and multiple other guys he went there with that beat him up in the shower and called him slurs. Trigger warning because this part is graphic

But he told me they asked him was he a top or bottom and that he clearly likes it up his ass so they violated him with foreign objects untill he was bleeding and just left him there until another guy found him and got him a towel to help him out of the bathroom. He said he didn't report it because he didn't want to put himself but¹ a rumor got started around college and it was miserable. He said the guy he saw was one of the guys who beat him up and violated him. That's why he has been depressed. I guess I don't know how to help. I honestly don't care if he's bisexual even if I don't completely understand bisexuality. I'm not sure what he needs from me