Im 25 and am currently in the dating process with a 30 year old male and it has been only a little over a month. For some background information we have gone out previously but we mutually ghosted each other. I wasn’t in the best place mentally and my thoughts were this is a wrong time, right person. I am not super religious but I felt it was my time to try again with dating and to say the least it hasn’t been successful. I prayed for the lord to send me this man because I truly believe he’s the one for me. I have never felt this confident, comfortable, and happy with someone ever. He is everything I am looking for in a partner, he wants the same things in life that I want which I feel like now in dating is a struggle. We matched back on July 4th as I was coming back into town from a trip, I thought this was god giving me my second chance so I took it and swiped right to try and match. I didn’t know if he would even respond to my match but as soon as I pulled it up when I got home there was already a message from him. Here’s where I really need advice, we went on a date and it went perfectly and he told me that he wasn’t seeing anyone else and that he wanted to focus solely on this relationship and was serious about it. We ended the night well and it felt like a dream. A little more context, he is back in school for mechanical engineering, he’s taking summer courses in the morning as of right now. We made our date for a day he doesn’t have school. We tried to schedule a date for the next week, which he had to bail on because his pregnant sister needed help no biggie we reschedule for a couple days after that. He then had homework from his class that he had to get done which again no biggie I get it we are only dating and I believe education is everything so I dismissed it but was left a little down because I really wanted to see him. We reschedule for the same day the next week and day of I text him and asked if we were going out and he replied “yes I can’t wait” to then later tell me he has a headache and surprise we didn’t go out. I then have tried to reach out and now I’m getting no reply at all. I’m at a loss for what is the right thing to do. My mom advised me to move on but my friends are telling me to hold on because he is truly everything I have dreamed for and maybe he just needs to get the timing down for dealing with school, family and a relationship. I don’t know if this is a way for god to say “you keep praying for him but I have better for you” or “I need you to hold in the faith that this is meant for you just weather this storm and light will shine through in the end” We haven’t spoken since July 26th, this was the last time I got a reply and my last attempt to talk to him was on July 30th. Should I keep trying for this relationship or should I move on? I’m sorry for the long post and if it’s scattered with details.