What is your recommendation for birth control pills??

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Hi! So I plan to go to the doctor next week because it's time for me to start taking birth control. I've never been on birth control before so I'm a little clueless but my question is which pill do you women prefer and why? Also, I know getting a shot is an option but I heard it makes you gain hella weight so I'm not getting that. But also how is the patch??