Okay… so my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I decided to take the train up this weekend to come and see him. It has been about a month and a half since I’ve seen him and since we had some sexy time, so I was excited. I was just on the train for 7 hours and I thought he would kinda prep me with some foreplay. But he jumped right into it and asked me to get on top. I wasn’t getting very wet, I have never had that issue before. I think foreplay would’ve helped and not just a little, enough to get me going so I would be naturally lubricated, and wouldn’t be embarrassed. It didn’t feel good, and I personally think that he could’ve done a lot more to help it feel better and get me there. When I got home I got myself going and there was no issue whatsoever. So I’m really thinking that it’s not me because why would I be able to make myself wet but my boyfriend didn’t even try. He could’ve fingered me, gone down on me (fyi he went down on me for about 30 seconds, that was not enough for me), and instead I got left feeling embarrassed and like I had an issue with me. Once I saw that I could still get wet I knew that there was probably more he could’ve done. I felt very out of it after that. And worse I blamed myself because he never came so I felt guilty and ashamed. Do you think that he could’ve done more to get me wet? Or is it my fault that he didn’t finish? I mean is it fair for me to travel 7 hours and then expect to get on top and do all of the work? I feel like if that’s what he wanted then he should’ve supplied the foreplay. Let me know if I’m onto something because I feel like I’m going crazy!