For the past 4 months, I’ve been having relations with this guy that I’m absolutely head over heels for. Early on when we started talking, we wanted to try for a relationship but long story short, we didn’t see eye to eye about some things so we decided that maybe a relationship isn’t what we need right now. Nonetheless, we kept contact & we still have sex & hangout from time to time. anyways to get to the point, the sex with him is out of this world, magical beyond words but there are some things he’s done/said that make me second guess things..he’s the type of guy that loves getting his nipples sucked, licked ect when being intimate. I understand that some guys like that & I respect it 100% but he also loves letting his gooch licked & there’s even been times where he’s pushed my head towards his ass for me to lick.. I did feel uncomfortable when this happened but we never really brought it up & just moved on from that. Overall he just has a very feminine aura when we have sex which throws me off sometimes.. could he be gay? I’ve asked myself that multiple times but can’t bring myself to ask him. So yesterday when we were casually jokingly talking about personal things, I said I wanted him to come over my house & he then said I should present him as my ‘gay bestie’ I just laughed it off cause I didn’t know what else to say.. it’s just things like that that lead me to believe maybe he’s hiding parts of himself to me & it makes me overthink a lot. What do you guys think?