My boyfriend has been unemployed for about a month now. I quit my job two weeks ago because I was miserable and got payed 8$ an hour, I almost lost half my salary to pay for the gas I used during work. I have now solved everything, I got accepted into a uni to get my dream degree and have secured a job at a store nearby. My boyfriend has applied for a few jobs and doesn’t seem to care that he’s been unemployed for so long. I have confronted him multiple times, throughout our whole relationship, about his lack of ambition and his unwillingness to work more and harder. Now we’re back at that same place. His family owns a farm that he’s probably going to inherit, but he doesn’t get paid for what he does there. Since his unemployment, he’s been working for free at the farm. Today I got annoyed at this whole thing again, and said “are you gonna get a job?”, he asked “when?”, so i said “ever”, which probably wasn’t the most smart way to go about this but he raised his voice at me which shocked me and said “what don’t you understand? do you think i just sit on my ass all day and do nothing?”. I know he doesn’t do that, he does work around the farm but that’s not what’s gonna make him money and that’s not what’s gonna make me stay in this relationship. I’m getting sick and tired of his choices and I don’t want an unemployed boyfriend that doesn’t want to work, meanwhile i’m going to juggle an education with a job on the side. I want a man with passion that wants to provide, but i’m questioning whether i’m with the right man. Where do I go from here?