Formed a connection with a man last year I met on a dating app but me and him genuinely just connected. But he kept me at a distance, like he was affectionate on dates and then pulled away after which made me feel quite sad

Anyway, he eventually said he didn’t feel the romantic aspect coming through but that he thought he would have done by now. It confused me as we genuinely had a connection and had amazing fun convos, always holding hands, passionate intimacy

Anyway, a few months later, he wanted to meet as friends and we ended up doing things like going to gig, and to play tennis. And he seemed so happy to see me, hugging me, telling me I’m one of the rare people he really clicks with and how similar we are. This made me feel sad a bit. Then he started texting me a lot all the time

U til he moved away for his new job. And just stopped speaking to me. An odd check in message from him here and there, I will never message him first. But even when he checks in, he doesn’t reply , we used to talk on instagram

The other day, I randomly started missing him and this morning I got a notification up on my phone saying ‘New friend suggestion: Tom’. I clicked on His profile and sent a request on Facebook

I’m a big overthinker and I’ve just got a bit tearful thinking oh maybe it was weird to add him. Maybe he doesn’t want to speak to me again and it’s creepy. Is it?