HELP IDK what to dooooo?!??!
Okay guys so basically a while back I had this first ever hinge date with a good but very weird guy let’s just say we didn’t end up talking and he did some really weird things (I think I’ve spoken abt them on here before)like have a friend there and do PUSH UPS IN THE BAR
I’m a very shy person and I think it shows when I meet people so I was panicking when he did this but I felt at ease kinda because his friend and I felt the same way.
In my mind I was thinking this is a set up because why would ur ‘friend’ who you’ve not seen in ages walk into this specific bar where you are with me like???
Anyways guys fast forward months and I mean literal months (I’ve forgotten abt this guy nd blocked him) I get this random message from my dates friend saying we should go OUT I was freaking outtttt but I did it anyways I did bring a friend Incase this was a real set up but we went met him it was all good vibes nd she left me with him to chit chat.Guys like I don’t wanna come across as a homie hopper or whatever u call it but when I say this guy and I are so similar we get on so well and I didn’t feel nervous at alll. I basically found out my first ever hinge date was a crazy set up and he’s no longer friends with that guy and though I deserved to know but he also wanted to get to know meeee.
But Yh it’s been a few days we r both working crazy schedules and only rlly chat at night which I hatee I feel so crazy and honestly like a beg when I literally crave his company or just a simple text.but I asked him about it upfront and he literally said he dosent wanna give me mixed signals and he would love to take me out again.
I guess my question is,
do you think this is still a set up?
Am I crazy is he crazy?
And what the hell do I do to move forward ?
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