I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 years now we are on our 2nd baby he was born a few days ago. We got stuck in the hospital for a few days… I went through lots of pain and through contractions he was asleep whole time. Nurses came in and seen him sleeping and asked if someone supportive can switch w him bc he wasn’t even up helping me through them towards the end when he seen my sister and mom massaging my back. Anyways I was just wondering is it normal for bfs to not get the gfs a pushing gift ? 😂 like last baby he got me flowers but this time he didn’t get me anything. My sister both felt bad for me for going through such pain they brought me Starbucks in the hospital and I’m just like idk I feel like he couldn’t done something nice for me since i do a lot for him at home cooking cleaning & birthing our kids. What do you guys think? I’m not going to tell him hey buy me something I deserve it. I guess I want to feel appreciated.

Edit / yeah I didn’t know push present was a thing either it’s not that I want a push present bc my baby is my whole life and we both wanted the baby . Just feel like as a man seeing his gf go through such pain he would want to get her something to make her feel loved and appreciated idk could be he’s just comfortable. He hasn’t even asked me to marry him. It’s been 8 years we talk about it. But it’s like if he wanted to he would. He does work. He’s on leave to help me out & spend time with baby