Hi guys,

I was with this guy for a year and it was a whirlwind romance. He was everything to me! We were planning our lives together, talking about having kids…. We just celebrated our one year anniversary and my birthday in July. Three weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I’m excited! He’s not. All those plans of having a baby was a lie. He told me to get rid of the child. Mind you, I’m 38 and he’s 41. Were too old to be going through these things. I was like it’s cool if you don’t want the kid but with you giving me an ultimatum like that, I refuse to be in a relationship with. Now he’s saying he wants nothing to do with this kid and basically will be a deadbeat to my child. He’s a great father with his 4 other kids, but wants to be a deadbeat to my kid? Make this make sense. So now I’m about to be a single mom at 38 with 2 older kids from my ex marriage. Am I wrong for thinking on having an abortion because I refuse to be a single mom with a newborn at my big age?