Hi ladies, i posted about finding out my 2 kids gets social security benefit from my husband injury and military disability. I was so upset because we go 50/50 on our finances and i actually pay way more in food and caring for our kids. I asked him why he didnt mention this and he said because he thought it wasnt my business. I told him i was angry that he gets 500$ for the kids monthly but still go half even for kids things and spends the rest on himself even thou he has his own social security and other benefit. Yesterday he finally agree to save half the money for the kids. He just put it in his saving which i dont believe 🥴. He said the other half if none of my business. He said he doesnt feel i deserve to know or deserve any help with the kids. He said im not really a good wife and that i need to earn the good treatment.