So I was in relationship w my ex for about 3 years! We broke up in July due to his need to constantly text other girls and it ended up getting violent so he moved out but we still to fw each other. We are only having sex w each other (from what I know). He asked me to move back in because his friend started charging him basically 1/3 of the rent to stay there and I let him thinking I was still in love w him and wanting to make it work. As soon as he moved in I basically got completely grossed out. Like I have love for him ofc and want what’s best for him but I just feel like I’m over him as a person. He’s currently looking for a job and he’s not putting in as much effort as I feel he should be. We agreed we would only smoke at night so he can be more productive because when he smokes he literally sleeps no matter the time of day. Since he’s been back he literally scrolls on TikTok ALL DAY LONG and still smokes throughout the day after multiple times of me telling him not too. I feel so dumb for letting him come back thinking it would be different. I can’t talk to my family or friends about it because they told me this would happen so I just needed to get my thoughts out but it’s soooo annoying. I don’t want to keep talking to him like I’m his mother and I’m sure he doesn’t want me to keep talking to him about it but I feel he’s not even trying. I want him to move out but he literally has no where to go. I’m trying to be patient with him and just trust that maybe he’s working on something I don’t know but I’m starting to feel this is gonna be a repeat of last time. He also admitted to me when he first moved in that when he stayed w his friends that he’s texting other girls and he was dancing on women when they went out even tho we agreed not too which also completely turned me off. I think I’m just ready to do my own thing and I can’t if he’s at my house 😭 but idk y’all pray for me cause I really am a dumb bitch