Someone posted about giving silent treatment to their 13 year old child for eating their one year old wedding cake….

to the OP: its ok to be upset because your night didn’t turn out the way you want it to and that’s life it happens. But your child who has autism doesn’t deserve that, this hits home for me because my child has autism and is disappointing when someone lacks patience, it’s already hard enough that other children without disability will isolate and treat children with disabilities or special needs like they are freaks. I hope you take into consideration what other people had to say and go with it with grace, make it right with your son, know what to consider next time you go out, change babysitter at this point, and have a redo of your anniversary if you need to.

But most of all, this person Alexis went on a rant how people on here are negative and hate positivity. This what I was going to say to you: Sometimes the negativity can be harsh but it can the truth that the OP needed, this goes for everyone. Most likely people in their life won’t say the truth and let them continue to embarrass themselves and be left with no one. And not true, I and others will comment on positive posts, it feels better to cheer for someone than tell someone to stop being an idiot and change. You’re not doing any justice for telling OP to put blame on the husband and anyone else. It was wrong to give silent treatment on a child who is learning and trying to understand, as far as I remember 13 years old isn’t an adult. If you and this OP have a hard time how commenters express themselves then don’t come on here. No one has to walk on eggshells around you and don’t owe you anything