I (F26) and bf (25) have been long distance for almost a yr next month he’s great all around loving understanding, spoils me and helps me all around but he talks about sex a lot when we first started talking around 5-6months we started sexting and it started becoming everyday thing sometimes multiple and I’ve told him I don’t want it to be an everyday thing and he agreed and to take it slower and explained that he hasn’t had sex in 5+ years which has , I’m noticing every conversation we have he’s always bringing it up earthier jokes about it or has some comment about it , we’re planning on meeting in the next few months and I’ve talked about how I don’t want this trip to be all about sex and if I feel as though it is I will go home and we won’t have sex at all and agreed with what I said and he said he has stuff planned and to trust him well last week we were looking at airbnbs to stay in and he was talking about somethings we were gonna do and then he mentions how the first week(for the 2 weeks im going over there) we’re gonna stay in the Airbnb and hangout and I asked why are we gonna stay cooped up in the air bomb when there’s alot we could do and he replied so we can watch movies, cuddle because I know your gonna be tired from your flight etc and im sitting there thinking im not gonna be tired for a whole week, so few months goes by and the sexting becomes and everyday thing again and we talk and he is promising to work on it , few more months goes by and tonight im in “im having cramps I miss him I can’t wait to talk to him” kinda mood cause he’s been working over 40 hour weeks past 2 weeks and he calls me when he’s done work and tells me about his day (didn’t bother to ask about mine) and just started talking about sex and in the middle of it he says don’t I deserve my “dick sucked for all the stuff I do for you”( don’t think he’s meaning to use it as a “weapon” not sure if that’s the right word) so my mood is all fucked he gets off says he loves me and all the stuff I do for him and falls asleep and now im just sitting here like what the actual fuck🤦🏻‍♀️ is anyone else’s bf like this!?