Libido I guess?

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I.am a 38yo married woman. My husband is an amazing man but his drive is very high. Mine used to be high but over time its not the same. Sometimes i find my mind wandering during sex or becoming disinterest in sex. I really dislike it because my hubby is very into me when were intimate, but i cant keep focus. IIfind myself needing libations to relax and to let my mind free. Anyone having issues with their mind wandering during sex?