So for the past few months I have been bleeding when we have sex (don't use condoms) my husband can feel the difference when there is blood there it instantly turns him off I am awaiting a pap smear but results are currently taking over 3 weeks doctor done in internal exam and said everything looks and feels normal no polyps or anything so I asked what will happen if my pap comes back clear she said I will then be refared to the gyocologist but that could take months for an appointment (NHS) she also said it could be to do with my cervix from having children has anyone else experienced this what was the outcome I know everyone's outcome are different I just wish everything didn't take so long my husband even said maybe I should goto a private gyocologist and pay for it just to get answers quicker its really destroying our sex life at the moment its really upsetting me i should mention it doesn't hurt when i do bleed he is bigger than average too which doesn't help plus my sex drive has gone crazy since i stopped taking my medication (I am wanting him evary day my poor husband can't keep up 🤣) it's driving me insane 😭 any tips on what we can do in the mean time penatrive toys and his fingers also make me bleed i should also add there are no issues with not being enough lubricant we have gone through a few years of major stress with family life that put a massive wedge between us and really effected our sex life and now that we are closer than ever and actually communicating this is happening i just want to scream 😔