This is kinda long but these are things I’ve brought up to my husband countless times and it never changes. Also im a sahm.

1. I had to beg for a bigger vehicle which was a week long fight before I finally got it instead of him getting a new one (he has 2 other but wanted something new). Now all his vehicles need work so he’s using our new vehicle which has 3 rows (we have 3 kids), and I’m back to my tiny car because he doesn’t want to drive something that small.

He has trashed my car in the 4 weeks his been using it, he had to use my old car last night for two hours and boom it’s trashed in the short time frame. Never cleans up after himself. He’s just as bad as the kids, if not worse.

2. He never helps with cleaning the house or watch the kids so they aren’t in the way so I can get it all done uninterrupted.

3. He will sit on his phone while our one year old is trashing the place while getting into everything right beside him. Today for an example, I took a 10 minute shower and I get out and our youngest dump a whole drink on the sofa while husband was right beside him and had no idea until I said something.

4. If I don’t ask him to send me most of his paycheck once he gets it, it’s gone and we don’t have bill money. When I bring it up, all I get is an “okay” then he’ll walk away or we’ll just sit there awkwardly cause he knows I’m frustrated.

5. He’ll leave his dirty dishes all over the place for days on end until I finally give in or they get in his way but will get mad when our 1 year old gets into them and makes a mess which I’m left to clean.

I could go on more but these are the biggest issues.