A few days ago, my husband picked me up below the waist and said “look at you, you’re like a helpless cat or child. You’re mine.” Like he got off on picking me up and making me feel small or childlike. It really rubbed me the wrong way. And for a while he’s just given me the creeps in general. He’s sweet…but it’s like he has this father/old man complex. And at the same time he wants me to mother him by doing household things for him. It’s made me completely sexually unattracted to him.

Thoughts?