Hey ladies! I’m new to this and i am welcome to all comments. So me and my child’s father recently separated due to infidelity while I was expecting. Anywho before our child we experienced a miscarriage which I received no emotional support from his side of the family mainly mother and sister. (Btw I met them a few times but don’t know them) they found out I was pregnant and once they knew it was going well that’s when they decided they wanted to meet me which I find fake because where were yall when I was dealing with my miscarriage. I met the sister at my baby shower. I requested no family while giving birth since the baby wasn’t getting vaccinated. They came anyway. Not only did they not wear mask or wash their hands the sister picked the baby up after we said no because again she not vaccinated. They kept asking when were they going to see the baby after we said we will be allowing visitors once the baby is three months. They still demanded to see the baby which I made a one time exception. I invited them over recently since we were having a few family members over my mom’s house and they could see the baby. They did not respect my request of having a blanket covering them, did not wash their hands, kept bouncing the baby street being fed after I asked three times. Then the sister told her brother and mom what I said that I didn’t want the baby directly on their clothing and made it into a mockery. The next day the baby broke out everywhere because they did not do what I asked. When I addressed it and other things they have disregarded when it comes to our child they denied it. If yall can’t do what I ask in my presence how can I trust that yall would do the same if the baby is alone with yall. Not to mention his auntie rudely interrupted my speech at the baby shower and his cousin told him to take the gift she got for our child to his place and not mine. My family doesn’t treat him how they treat me. Now that we’re not together his sister sent him text messages about what to do next time he decides to cheat instead of telling him he is wrong and he has a family. So that right there told me she doesn’t respect his family that he created or care if our child parents are together or not. I checked her about it and she called him crying. Since then my child haven’t been to see them because I am the one what would take her to visit them not him. I want our child to have a bond with them without me being present but I don’t know them or their upbringing and don’t trust that they have the best interest for the baby just based off things they have done and said. I plan to take the baby to visit the grandmother who also lives in the same household as his sister but not without him. It’s hard when a child is involved. What do you think